The effects of addiction on a family can be devastating and far reaching. Addiction’s effects go beyond the individual struggling with substance abuse and can have an emotional and financial impact on all family members. Addiction is a disease that affects not just the addict but all those that love them – often leading to feelings of hopelessness and despair.
When someone struggles with addiction it has an immediate effect on the family dynamics. This can cause a feeling of disconnect and mistrust between all members of the family. Termed ‘codependency’, the family can develop a cycle of help and enabling – often with the expense of the family’s wellbeing.
Family members of an addict can feel a strong sense of guilt and worthlessness, with the belief that they are to blame for the addict’s problems. They can be reluctant to bring up the issues and feel stuck in the situation, as they become emotionally and even financially dependant on the addict. This guilt and helplessness can have a negative effect on family relationships. The addict may also feel guilty and regretful about their behavior and try to isolate themselves from family, leading to feelings of rejection and further alienation.
The longer an addiction remains untreated, the worse the effects can be for the family. Whether they be emotional or physical, addiction affects all aspects of life. Tensions can arise between family members, and the addict can start to feel the full weight of the issue.
The family’s finances can also take a big hit with addiction. Not only can direct costs such as drug or alcohol related purchases lead to financial stress, but so can secondary effects such as lost wages due to the addict’s inability to work or attend school, or the need to pay for medical or psychological treatment for the addict. The amount of money that is spent on addiction can be overwhelming and have a severe impact on the family’s economic stability.
Finally, addiction can also lead to legal troubles for the addict and their family. Addiction can lead to behaviors such as theft, violence or driving under the influence, which can result in legal action. This in turn can bring on a host of legal problems and financial hardship.
The long-term effects of addiction in a family are unfortunately far reaching and can be very difficult to overcome. However, with the proper help and education, families can recover from addiction and get back on track. Addiction is a complex issue and family members of addicts need to make sure they seek out available help, whether it is through professional counselling, support groups or other appropriate resources. Seeking out treatment for addiction is the first step in recovery, and with the proper support, families can move forward and rebuild their relationships.